About Jane Eyre
Love versus Autonomy
Jane Eyre is very much the story of a quest to be loved. Jane searches, not just for romantic love, but also for a sense of being valued, of belonging. Thus Jane says to Helen Burns: “to gain some real affection from you, or Miss Temple, or any other whom I truly love, I would willingly submit to have the bone of my arm broken, or to let a bull toss me, or to stand behind a kicking horse, and let it dash its hoof at my chest” (Chapter 8). Yet, over the course of the book, Jane must learn how to gain love without sacrificing and harming herself in the process.
Her fear of losing her autonomy motivates her refusal of Rochester’s marriage proposal. Jane believes that “marrying” Rochester while he remains legally tied to Bertha would mean rendering herself a mistress and sacrificing her own integrity for the sake of emotional gratification. On the other hand, her life at Moor House tests her in the opposite manner. There, she enjoys economic independence and engages in worthwhile and useful work, teaching the poor; yet she lacks emotional sustenance. Although St. John proposes marriage, offering her a partnership built around a common purpose, Jane knows their marriage would remain loveless.
Nonetheless, the events of Jane’s stay at Moor House are necessary tests of Jane’s autonomy. Only after proving her self-sufficiency to herself can she marry Rochester and not be asymmetrically dependent upon him as her “master.” The marriage can be one between equals. As Jane says: “I am my husband’s life as fully as he is mine. . . . To be together is for us to be at once as free as in solitude, as gay as in company. . . . We are precisely suited in character—perfect concord is the result” (Chapter 38).

  这个故事的结局非常出乎我的意料。教会我天下没有免费的午餐这个道理。

  拥有猴爪的人可以任意许三个愿望。这童话故事般的开头却越读越让人深思。第一个许愿的人死了，第二个许愿的人妻儿全出车祸离世了。具体描写了第三个许愿人凄惨的全过程。

我想许的第一个愿望也是有钱。因为有钱我就可以完全支配自己的时间做自己喜欢的事。还可以让家人都和我一样过一个自由的人生。

第三个拥有猴爪的人许下的愿望是要一笔钱。一家人都想换个大房子

我以为愿望很快就会实现，开头一定是美好的。没想到他们许下愿望的那一刻原本宁静知足的生活马上就变得糟糕了。

一家三口开始抱怨现在的生活，一心等着那笔钱来让他们变得幸福。最后夫妻俩等来了那笔钱，是儿子在工厂意外死亡的赔偿金。

天下没有免费的午餐，知足才是幸福的秘诀。

This story is about a doctor met an ugly man, he looks like an elephant, the shopkeeper exhibition to earn his money. The doctor tried to help him and sent him to the hospital, when people know that this is a person, many kind people to help him. Although he looks very terrible, but people would like to chat with him, he is very happy, until one day he accident die. But interpersonal or was that a warm. 　　象人 The Elephant Man is a story about a ugly man named Joseph Merrick . Written by Tim Vicary. Joseph Merrick was a person who was so ugly that others either laughed at him or were afraid of him.So he was not ill but he couldn't go to work either.But he was very happy in the last three years of his life. One of the most touching is a beautiful yong woman give him a *** ile. He always kept the beautiful things in his mind.Even when he was kept in the cold and dark little room,he took his mother's picture with him . His mother was beautiful and kind. And the most important that she *** iled to him when he was a child. His mother doesn't abandon of he, although it is his child. From *** all to large,he is a strange man---elephant man, so no one ever *** iled to him, while his mother always on his *** ile. After her mother died, no one to care for him, to take care of him, and has not seen others *** ile to him, so, when a beautiful young woman *** iled at him, he felt gentle and warm. This is a normal person can understand and feel. This includes a deep love for his mother and appreciate for that beautiful young woman. I believe that the world is not the second person than the elephant man depth to his mother, no second people more than he need the *** ile. So when we meet some body like elephant man what shoud we do? Laught him or help him? If you still have love so let’s try our best to help them. Have a public heart is the great quality you have.Beacuse that isn’t every one can have it. 猴爪 If you can make three wishes, you can get there three things, your wish will bee reality. What would you like? " The monkey's paw " is about the White family got friends paw, the unusual monkey paw can meet the needs of three people each of whom presented three wishes, but the three wish does not necessarily bring happiness. However, they eventually carefully made wish. Indeed, they got to do 30000, but it was all done at the expense of bereavement. The White family caught in a nigare. Have to say, this is a tragedy is the tragedy! The monkey's paw, which give the man who has it brought pain and regret, disrupting the White family originally calm life. However, the Jo White family have no wish, so they are not still live a poor but happy life? This is a monkey's paw induced by tragedy, a tragedy of human nature! When the White family in the face of the lives of the poor and feeble, want to change the reality of the subjective will and its ability to produce intense collision, only the vision will be better placed in the seemingly magical monkey paw, looking forward to the " pie in the sky " opportunity. This was originally derived from a beautiful wish, but eventually led to a horrible nigare, it illustrates the " to change the reality is not necessarily a good thing ", especially much beyond reality. The monkey's paw " magic " remind me, when exam, many students will take the last minute review time, while review whining, and even delusions are gifted with an extraordinary retentive memory super memory, of course I also included. We always want to exceed strong memory can help us remember each knowledge point, so as to avoid of the bitter memory, and allow themselves to get good marks in the exam. This " cramming " phenomenon it is often seen. Among students, and the so-called " super memory " is extremely rare. But, the world really has a super memory man! When I from the news that a British girl has gifted with an extraordinary retentive memory of a prodigious memory, to my surprise, jealous. The heart also enjoyed fantasy if I like her memory is so good, so life will bee so easy. But, I was wrong, the girls' day head again and again to reproduce what has already happened, pain, sadness can 't escape, such life lets her suffer unspeakably. I am dumb, more fortunate, because my brain is know how to give up. Originally, alter reality so difficult. The reality, as life is a chess game, have fixed boundaries, not let our subjective arbitrarily to change reality, but, pawn is in fixed boundaries at our mercy. We can change their attitude towards life take on a variety of actual dissatisfaction, optimistic attitude to face the reality, learn. However, this does not mean that the status quo, we still need to improve their ability to intersperse the reality, perfect reality, so as to gradually change the reality. If I can make three wishes, so I hope I get real, catch up with reality, beyond reality. 　　象和猴

Jane Eyre is very much the story of a quest to be loved. Jane searches, not just for romantic love, but also for a sense of being valued, of belonging. Thus Jane says to Helen Burns: “to gain some real affection from you, or MiTemple, or any other whom I truly love, I would willingly submit to have the bone of my arm broken, or to let a bull tome, or to stand behind a kicking horse, and let it dash its hoof at my chest” (Chapter 8). Yet, over the course of the book, Jane must learn how to gain love without sacrificing and harming herself in the process.

Her fear of losing her autonomy motivates her refusal of Rochester’s marriage proposal. Jane believes that “marrying” Rochester while he remains legally tied to Bertha would mean rendering herself a mistreand sacrificing her own integrity for the sake of emotional gratification. On the other hand, her life at Moor House tests her in the opposite manner. There, she enjoys economic independence and engages in worthwhile and useful work, teaching the poor; yet she lacks emotional sustenance. Although St. John proposes marriage, offering her a partnership built around a common purpose, Jane knows their marriage would remain loveless.

Nonetheless, the events of Jane’s stay at Moor House are necessary tests of Jane’s autonomy. Only after proving her self-sufficiency to herself can she marry Rochester and not be asymmetrically dependent upon him as her “master.” The marriage can be one between equals. As Jane says: “I am my husband’s life as fully as he is mine. . . . To be together is for us to be at once as free as in solitude, as gay as in company. . . . We are precisely suited in character—perfect concord is the result” (Chapter 38).